Relational Architecture
LISA JAYNE - SUNSHINE COAST & ONLINE
For relationships that hold,
even when things fall apart
WHAT BRINGS YOU HERE
The pattern keeps returning.
That's structural.
You've done the work. You understand yourself. And yet the same dynamics surface — different relationship, same architecture. What you need isn't more insight. It's a map of the structure beneath the pattern — and a way to build something genuinely different.
THE FUNDAMENTAL SHIFT
Most approaches try to change
the pattern
from within the pattern.
Conflict resolution. Communication scripts. Attachment work. All valuable — and all limited by the same constraint: they attempt to produce new results from inside the same underlying structure.
Relational Architecture works differently. Instead of managing what's happening, we map the structure running it. Instead of learning new responses, we build the capacity for a fundamentally different way of showing up — one that is coherent, grounded, and genuinely yours.
The architecture changes. The relationships follow.
"You can’t build new architecture from within the old one"
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
There is a right entry point
for where you are
Every pathway below leads to the same place:
a relational architecture that holds, even under pressure.
START HERE - FREE
Your Relational
Architecture Mirror
A free diagnostic that maps your relational structure across three domains — where you're holding, where you're under strain, and what that pattern is actually telling you.
LIVE MASTERCLASS — $47
Your Relational
Architecture Lab
A live working session, limited to 30, where we map relational patterns in real time. You leave with a structural map and a precise understanding of where to build. For individuals and couples.
SIGNATURE PROGRAM
The Relational
Architect
An 8-week immersion into a new relational architecture. Not a course. A structural transformation - building the specific capacities that produce coherence, presence, and genuine creative potential in your relationships.
Relational Architecture
is built across three domains.
THE THREE DOMAINS
Strength in one cannot compensate for instability in another. Each domain is a structural capacity — not a personality trait, not a communication style. Something that can be built.
COMMITMENT TO PROCESS · HOLDING TENSION · FUNCTIONAL PRESENCE
01
Living from Truth
The capacity to stay aligned to what is true for you — even when tension is present. Speaking from coherence rather than from protection. What you feel is what you say. No gap, no filter, no performance.
Living in Presence
02
INTEGRITY IN DIFFERENTIATION · DEPENDABILITY
The capacity to remain emotionally available when the charge is high — without fixing, withdrawing, blaming, or escalating. Presence under ease is easy. This domain measures something harder.
Living as Creative Potential
03
SELF TRUST · EMERGENCE · CONSCIOUS CHOICE
The capacity to relate from wholeness — consciously creating the relationship and life you want, rather than managing what already exists. Not repair. Authorship.
WHAT PEOPLE SAY
"I am blown away by the power of Lisa's work. I feel like I've returned to my true self."
STACEY M.
"I was immediately impressed by Lisa's ability to explore deep emotional issues in a safe and meaningful way. I now approach life very differently — which is a refreshing, freeing place to be."
ANDREW G.
"Lisa told me that things will change from tomorrow - I didn't believe this could be true, but it was. The supported journey to change my approach has been rewarding beyond my imagination. I am ME.
If you struggle with your relationships and need guidance to change your path, I recommended Lisa Jayne to support you in your self discovery and self worth journey.”
JACINTA L.
"Working with Lisa has opened my world up into a whole new light, such an amazing journey. my stress and overthinking patterns have eased and life is beautiful!”
BEN F.
"Lisa created tools for me to navigate difficult relationships — how to take responsibility for my own patterns, stand up for myself, and truly embrace self love. Your guidance changed my life."
MARY M.
"Lisa is the absolute best. I approached her for guidance on certain aspects of my life but she has helped me with so much more than what I originally thought possible. Her methods showed results from day one and are easy to understand and follow. She offers so much more than a lot of specialists I have seen and is always there when you need her, even outside of appointments. If you are looking for guidance, please give Lisa a call. She will change your life as she has mine!"
JOHN S.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Working with me
looks like this.
We map where you are
01
A 90-minute initial consultation to identify your relational patterns, map your architecture, and clarify exactly where to begin. You'll leave with something concrete — not a list of things to work on, but a structural picture that makes everything clearer…and something to put into practice straight away.
Your relational architecture stabilises
02
Your relationships start reorganising around your new structure naturally. Not because you've learned to communicate better — but because the structure beneath the communication has changed. This is the difference between managing a pattern and building something new.
We integrate a new relational operating system + strengthen the specific capacities that close the biggest ‘gaps’ in your relationship
04
Ongoing sessions are tailored to your architecture — not a generic program, but precise work on the capacities that are under strain in your specific relational system. Real-time support between sessions, with practices you can apply immediately.
Everything is recorded
03
Every session is recorded so you can revisit insights and integrate them in your own time. This work compounds. The more you return to it, the more deeply it lands.
What you might
be wondering.
COMMON QUESTIONS
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Most approaches work within the existing relational structure — refining communication, processing emotions, understanding patterns. Relational Architecture works on the structure itself. We don't just identify what's happening. We map why it keeps happening — at a structural level — and build the specific capacities that construct a new architecture, which naturally produces different results. You move from managing consequences to building something genuinely new.
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Yes. Relational Architecture describes how you are structurally organised to connect — with anyone. The patterns you carry into intimate relationships are the same ones showing up at work, with family, and in how you relate to yourself. This work is for anyone who wants to understand and shift those patterns at a structural level.
If you are single now, what better time to make sure you won’t repeat the patterns of the past? -
One person changing their architecture changes the relational dynamic. You cannot change another person's structure — but when yours shifts, the system around you reorganises in response. Many people begin this work alone and find that the relationship transforms as a natural consequence.
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Most people notice something in the first session — not because the architecture has fully changed, but because seeing the structure clearly produces an immediate shift in how you perceive things. Structural change takes longer. The full program is eight weeks and is designed to install new capacity — not just the insight — across all three domains. -
Yes. If after applying my guidance over a three-week period you're not satisfied, I will refund your investment. This work requires commitment — but it also delivers results. I stand behind that completely.
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Sessions are available in my private practice in Eumundi on the Sunshine Coast, or online via Zoom — anywhere in the world. All sessions are recorded so you can return to them at any time.